link policy
UPDATE, as of: 09/25/09 I’m recinding the dreck below, which was my original policy. Awwww shucks, wasn’t I nice? 
The new policy is that I’m going to do whatever the hell I want with my own blogroll, and you are are more than welcome to do the same with yours.
Since I’m an “evil feminazi”, I’m really not sure who would want to be associated with me, frankly. I understand that my blog address and user name scares the hell outta some people* and confuses others**. If you are a radical feminist or possibly even a borderline radfem, and would like your blog addy to be listed, please let me know and it will be included. I really don’t want to make anyone feel awkward by placing them in a position where they would prefer to refuse my own request for permission to list their blog but feel uncomfortable by doing so. No reciprocals necessary.
* Perceptive little buggers, aren’t they?
** They should read this page.
sparklematrix replied:
Include me *from the dark side* with chocolate
January 2, 2008 at 10:40 am. Permalink.
m Andrea replied:
Excellent! One chocolate with sprinkles – done!
January 3, 2008 at 1:03 am. Permalink.
Debs replied:
I’ve only just discovered you but if you’d link to me I’d be honoured! x
January 4, 2008 at 12:15 pm. Permalink.
m Andrea replied:
Welcome Debs! But I need a linky before I do that, you didn’t include one! lol Also, what kind of chocolate would you like?
January 4, 2008 at 3:45 pm. Permalink.
Debs replied:
Hi again, sorry it’s http://feministfire.wordpress.com/
Do you have milk chocolate with nuts in it? Thanks
xxx
January 5, 2008 at 3:02 am. Permalink.
m Andrea replied:
I guessed, from the picture at your site. mmmm, cookies.
January 6, 2008 at 4:04 pm. Permalink.
Starfish replied:
In case you missed me talking to you at my place, you can link me too, if you like – I do tend toward warm and fuzzy at times, by my own estimation, though I’m sure thousands would beg to differ.
I like plain dark bitter! chocolate, no dairy required.
January 6, 2008 at 8:07 pm. Permalink.
Starfish replied:
You might need this, http://starfsh.wordpress.com/ which I’d thought would show up automatically since I was logged in.
January 6, 2008 at 8:09 pm. Permalink.
Mary Sunshine replied:
Plain dark bitter, no sugar, nothing.
Nothing could be more chocolate.
January 7, 2008 at 10:01 am. Permalink.
m Andrea replied:
Hmmm, something must be up somewhere, because no linkies are showing up through just posting names. I did not know you had a blog. Also, that is my favorite kind of cookie! yum.
Frankly, I am really surprised that anyone wants on the blog-o-rama, this is perplexing to me – don’t you all realize I’m evil?
[edit] poked the settings, let’s see if that was enough.
January 7, 2008 at 1:02 pm. Permalink.
Starfish replied:
Oh, Mary Sunshine, you would be a purist, wouldn’t you?!
m Andrea, maybe it’s precisely because you’re unqualified “evil”, and such fun.
January 8, 2008 at 3:26 am. Permalink.
Debs replied:
You’re not evil, you’re lovely!
Just wanted to tell you I have taken Pandagon off my blogroll because they banned you. Ha! – that’ll teach ‘em! lol
x
January 8, 2008 at 7:56 am. Permalink.
m Andrea replied:
No, I actually deserved it Deb. What I wrote was extremely rude and not funny, which it could have been, if done differently. I’m soooo going to do it over! LOL I failed to explain the logic and that’s why everyone was offended.
Your linkies are still not showing up in your names. Okay, one more time with the pokey stick.
January 8, 2008 at 1:38 pm. Permalink.
L replied:
Lovin’ the blog. Would therefore like to be associated with it. Editorializing the Editors at heartoffalsehood.wordpress.com.
January 12, 2008 at 9:07 pm. Permalink.
m Andrea replied:
L, thank you! You are very kind!
January 13, 2008 at 12:16 am. Permalink.
Hairy Harpie replied:
Could you please email me mAndrea? I would like to add you to my website.
February 17, 2008 at 6:03 pm. Permalink.
m Andrea replied:
Hello! You don’t want to mention your website here?
February 21, 2008 at 11:10 am. Permalink.
Polly Styrene replied:
Yes please! I definitely want to be associated with anyone who loves the ‘century of the self’. As I have relentlessly plugged it many times. Also I am already the incarnation of evol and therefore my reputation cannot be damaged (try though I might). Sorry I don’t have a blog roll to return the favour, but I am essentially lazy.
June 24, 2008 at 1:58 pm. Permalink.
Polly Styrene replied:
Yup the link M Andrea is
http://www.sizeofacow.wordpress.com
But you know that.
June 28, 2008 at 12:52 am. Permalink.
Anji replied:
Oooh am I allowed in?
I likes me some chocolate. I’ll have caramel in mine please!
July 17, 2008 at 3:55 pm. Permalink.
m Andrea replied:
Okay, Anji! I just happen to have some spare caramel cookies with some kind of nut in the cookie jar, I think it’s macadamia or whatever they’re called. cookies, yum… Btw, you are allowed to argue with me if you want, although according to the secret feminazis handbook, we will call it a discussion! lol
And I am a little particular who does get in here, as I tend to not moderate my own blog very well. So once you’re in, you get to do whatever you want.
July 21, 2008 at 10:36 am. Permalink.
Nine Deuce replied:
Can I sign up? It seems to me that we’ve got more than a few things in common, one of them being our opinion on the practice of swallowing (I just found your post on the subject via a comment from Pisaquari). Can I add you to my blogroll? If so, do you want me to call you Miss Andrea or Feminazi or ___?
July 21, 2008 at 3:27 pm. Permalink.
thebewilderness replied:
Is that what you have been doing all this time? Making trollhouse cookies? Having a life, and cookies too? Criminy, that sounds better than blogging.
Still we are missing you around here. I mention it just so you know.
July 21, 2008 at 6:38 pm. Permalink.
Maggie Hays replied:
Hi Miss Andrea,
I’ve just linked you to my blogroll. Is that okay if you link me to yours?
http://maggiehaysagainstporn.blogspot.com/
Maggie, a rad fem sister.
July 25, 2008 at 8:28 am. Permalink.
m Andrea replied:
I would be thrilled to pieces. and been meaning to stick you in my porn stats and research post. I occassionally wander in there and tidy things up.
July 25, 2008 at 12:12 pm. Permalink.
m Andrea replied:
Nice Deuce, I am so very sorry for assuming you were a troll. Gah, I am embarrassed I don’t get out much, your blog is fabulous and can I have a linky too? lol
July 29, 2008 at 12:09 pm. Permalink.
Nine Deuce replied:
Yep. Done.
July 29, 2008 at 4:30 pm. Permalink.
polly styrene replied:
Ok M Andrea can I mention a weird thing is happening. It happened when I tried to follow a link on my old blog too. Click on Nine Deuce’s name above. What do see? I got a general advertising board thingy. It happened when I was trying to follow back a link from my old blog as well.
What is going on?
July 30, 2008 at 8:24 am. Permalink.
L replied:
The link in Nine Deuce’s name is missing a “t” so it says Rage Agains The Manchine — that’s why it’s not going back to her actual site.
July 30, 2008 at 9:28 am. Permalink.
m Andrea replied:
Thank you so much for saying something — that’s probably why I thought she was a troll when she first came here! Except, I believe that in every instance of adding a new link, I have always gone to the site itself and hit copy + paste. So I am clueless and let her know.
The only reason I ever realized she wasn’t a troll was because Heart had linked to her and I remembered the name. But when I went to Deuce’s site (from Hearts) just now and clicked on her name, it did the exact same thing.
So supposedly I fixed the link in my blogroll, but who knows. I’m pretty sure I had done it right the first time. If all that makes sense.
July 30, 2008 at 7:49 pm. Permalink.
L replied:
The blogroll link seems to be working, and it’s spelled properly. Should be okay.
July 30, 2008 at 7:53 pm. Permalink.
m Andrea replied:
The link in her name is doing that wacky thing on her own site. And I don’t understand how I could have missed the blogroll. I always test it afterwards, to make sure it works.
July 30, 2008 at 7:54 pm. Permalink.
Nine Deuce replied:
I fucked up when I put my URL into my profile on WordPress, so pretty much every comment I’ve ever written on my own blog or anyone else’s on WordPress is linked to some weird site about Chinese girls or something.
July 30, 2008 at 8:13 pm. Permalink.
m Andrea replied:
But now it appears to be right? huh?
Hmmmm, in theory feminazi could exploit this for evil…. that is if I understood what the hell is going on. Feminazis exploit everything for evil, yanno. Have a cookie.
July 30, 2008 at 8:32 pm. Permalink.
Luckynkl replied:
I don’t blog. Can I still have chocolate?
July 31, 2008 at 2:17 am. Permalink.
m Andrea replied:
Yes!! Today there is almond coconut fudgey things, but there is still some tasty butterscotch shortbread left.
It would be nice if somewhere there was a list of your writings…
July 31, 2008 at 10:53 pm. Permalink.
Luckynkl replied:
It would be nice if somewhere there was a list of your writings…
LOL. I don’t even know where I’ve been and where I’ve posted over the years! But a good many of my writings from the last 10 years are stored on my hard drive.
I lied tho. I actually do have a blog. Several of them. I just don’t actually write anything in them. Well, other than a few initial entries so I can see all the pretty colors.
August 1, 2008 at 5:44 am. Permalink.
Miska replied:
Hey m Andrea,
I like your posts re the trans issue. I have just created a blog and I intend to write about these matters (from a radfem POV) too. At the moment I am compiling a list of posts around the net that discuss transgenderism – do you mind if I link to your series of posts?
Thanks,
Miska
October 8, 2009 at 2:46 am. Permalink.